Hi,
I am still new to this and don't really know what to expect but anyway, i feel like i have been criticized a lot, there was an incidence i would like to share, i work in a multinational company where once i had a presentation to prepare for a new prospective client and i was given 10 days initially which were cut down to a week which definitely increased the burden, on successful completion of the presentation, my boss who always saw me as an average employee was clapping too and after the clients left, I said "Sir, i appreciate your trust in me to be able to perform such tasks" and that is when he said "However, i've also noticed that some of the last minute tasks could have been planned for ahead of time."
I was so pissed by this, that even completing the presentation with success within the reduced time frame, all i got to hear was i could have done better.
I mean, it would have meant a lot if he could have just congratulated me on completion.
Does this happen to you too?
Greetings, as I understand your situation I have been through similar circumstances and can completely relate to how you must be feeling right now but you shouldn’t let one person‘s lack of acknowledgement affect a whole week of your hard work and efforts. The goal is to learn from criticism but not being offended because sometimes criticism means more than just being a narcissistic approach, I had stage fear in my early days of childhood. My Teachers, my friends and pretty much everybody made fun of me while I attempted to be on stage except this one day when I realised that if somebody’s opinion matters in regard of you then that’s you, yourself. Life is full of ups and downs & lows and highs and nobody matters unless you are satisfied with yourself! Seek satisfaction for yourself and others will fall in line! Try to find bliss when you are pushing through the limits and pushing through the pain.