I came across a situ recently where in a relationship bw X and Y person, there was some distance. Reason is still unknown but let's assume it was lockdown and it's effects.
While the person X was feeling alone, ignored and their presence felt pointless as if indifferent, the person still decided to stay with Y to know what comes out.
In the meanwhile X met Z , with all the perfect traits X was wishing for.
And now, X is attached with Z as well as does not want to let go of Y now as now Y decided to pull up the socks and to get back to being dedicated towards the relationship.
It has become so confusing that X doesnt know whom to refuse and whom to pursue as the situation demands for choosing one.
Greetings, as the situation suggests both the sides are equally heavy with the weight of prospective improvements the both sides are coming through. In such a circumstance, decision making is ought to be confusing because of the simultaneous steps taken in 2 different directions and now when the result is visible to the eyes a person would definitely feel like he’s riding on 2 boats at the same time where a single tranche has to be chosen where one side is gonna get hurt that is pretty obvious in the given situation sooner or later! In our country since a long time it’s said what’s meant to be done tomorrow should be done today & what is to be done today should be done : now. So make the final decision with clarity on who’s side you’re on & which direction you will take whereas do the due diligence to inform the person who’s gonna get hurt! I hope this helps ! Thanks & Regards!